I’m Not A Closer, Part II
Yesterday I wrote about how I can get a guy to chase me all night (something I thoroughly love to do), but can never get him to take down my number. But, there have been a few instances in recent history where I can get a guy communicating with me, but there seems to be some sort of comfort in online communications that never materializes into actual one-on-one dates. Basically, I get emotionally attached to someone, and get nothing in return.
Let’s take Construction Worker as an example. This guy texts me every morning to wish me a beautiful day; every lunch to see how I’m doing…and I could go on. On a typical day, we will exchange 20 texts. When I ask when we’re getting together, I get “I’ve been busy. But soon, I promise.” What the hell? Being with me in person is the best part of me.
This isn’t the only example of this. I’ve done a man-cleanse recently, getting rid of all the hangers-on who use me as a 140-characters-or-less distraction. Seriously, why, if I say “Let’s get together on Saturday” is there any other response than “Just tell me where and when.”
Tags: meeting new people, relationships
November 3rd, 2009 at 1:26 pm
umm? Seriously? Unavailable men maybe? Keeping you on standby? Douchenozzles. Haha.
November 3rd, 2009 at 1:40 pm
because unbeknownst to you black man already has a girlfriend
November 3rd, 2009 at 1:52 pm
the 140 character communicators are good for one thing and one thing only - getting kitty scratched when she needs it. trust me…you can’t get dinner out of those idiots.
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:11 pm
maybe you need to make your intentions clearer. Like “Do me Saturday”
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:16 pm
@Ashley Dawn, way to use the work Douchenozzle. I’ve been trying for a week to through it out somewhere.
@Desire, how did I know you would say that
@sadiejayn, @Dave, I’ve even tried that, and it didn’t work.
I wrote this yesterday, and reading it again today made me get angry all over again.
November 3rd, 2009 at 4:46 pm
@saidejayn “getting kitty scratched when she needs it” - WOW, I think I’ve found another blog girl to cyberstalk!
November 3rd, 2009 at 4:53 pm
Oh you need to read SadieJayn’s blog. She’s good
http://sadiejayn.wordpress.com/
November 4th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
20 texts and no dates? Loser.
November 4th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
Hint: They are just not that into you.
November 5th, 2009 at 10:47 am
Tyrone, if you ever met me, you’d know how ridiculous that would be. Everyone loves me.
November 10th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
thanks for the blog <3 darcie!!