I’m Not A Closer
I was reminded this weekend of how amazing I am. I get hit on a lot. There is a trend forming, however. At the end of the night, though I could have been talking to the same guy all night, I never leave with a number. (I am well aware of how easy it would be to get a guy to come home with me, but please, that’s not my goal). If I really like a guy I meet, I wake up the next morning hoping that he can find me on Facebook.
Marty, if you tell me that I should ask them for their number, I will kick you in the nads. I’ve asked tons of men out in my day. The result? No respect. Men want tons of women hitting on them, but it throws off the balance when a girl asks a guy out. Men need to feel like they are the ones with the power. Even men who aren’t afraid of a girl with balls will say yes out of politeness. Hell, I think sometimes they are just so shocked at getting asked out by a woman in the first place that they just say yes, even though they don’t like the girl.
But back to my original point. Like I mentioned last week, I am doing nothing wrong in my approach with men. I think the metrosexualization of men has made them get smaller balls. What does it take these days for a man to realize when he’s got the green light for a positive response? Or all they just after sex, and upon realizing that they are not going to get it from me, they throw in the towel?
November 2nd, 2009 at 3:15 pm
You’re right, don’t ask for their number…but do drop your last name a few times so they can find you on Facebook!
November 2nd, 2009 at 3:29 pm
See, that’s how it’s done.
November 2nd, 2009 at 3:41 pm
I’m just getting used to all this social networking and internet crap. I liked it better when all we had were Ataris and rotary dial phones. I think I’ll jump in my Delorian now and go back to 1987.
November 2nd, 2009 at 3:44 pm
I would give anything to not talk to men over BBM/text/e-mail.i.m. I considered cutting off all forms of communication except my phone to all men. I’m finding myself in all sorts of weird cyber-relationships lately….that may possibly be tomorrow’s blog post.
May 14th, 2010 at 1:09 pm
“I think the metrosexualization of men has made them get smaller balls. What does it take these days for a man to realize when he’s got the green light for a positive response? ”
I agree with this too. My friends and other guys Ive talked too think that they will offend a chick easily. They consider aggression as a negative trait - when actually they want that aggression.
May 14th, 2010 at 3:18 pm
I fully agree. It also saves time. A woman knows within a few minutes if she likes you…but will be polite for a whole night, even if she isn’t. Might as well just ask her upfront and if she says no, move on…