If my form is incorrect or it looks like I might hurt myself, I would want someone to let me know. Proper form is absolutely essential to acheiving a great physique. However, if you are going to offer me tips and pointers, please make sure that your body is as good or better than mine. Seriously. Would you take financial advice from a bankrupt accountant? Why would I take abs advice from someone with a spare tire? Is this a way to start a conversation? I’ve been working out and dating for several years, and telling me I’m doing something wrong is not hot. Leave the advice to the professional trainers…it’s their job…